Love is the Mount Everest of all emotions. It is revered and respected
throughout the world as the emotion to be surrounded by. Love God, love thy
neighbour, love your family, love your country, it is everywhere and in
everything. And, the most delirious and dangerous of them all is the mantra
propagated through boardrooms and classrooms, “love your work to
succeed.” Inspired by an article I came across on Miya Tokumitsu and a
conversation in the family on the concept of love as experienced and elevated
by the younger generation, led me to pen my thoughts.
We Remain Selfish At Heart
Love is important, undoubtedly, it is the emotion that binds individuals and groups, family and friends – a mother to her child, a father to his family and a human to existence. Yes, it binds and it limits, but it also uplifts and empower. But for me personally, hunger, not love is the emotion that drives the world to move forward. We have moved forward, from being wild, uncontrolled creatures, to becoming animals who have mastered thoughts and speech. But, we have definitely not mastered our actions or the hunger that drives those actions. The cases of mob attacks are examples of animals, posing as evolutionised beings, but really just animals, unable to control their hunger, of what, I am still trying to grasp.
Hunger & Anger Are the Driving Forces
Have you ever been hungry? Hungry for food? For love? For success? For money? For power? Not getting food on time leads to anger, and we have even invented a term for – Hangry. As a citizen of the world, where poverty and hunger remain supreme, we who miss a meal or two are allowed to be Hangry; but what of the millions for whom it’s a way of life? They rob, steal, kill or are led into the world of slavery by criminals or salvation by priests, and we of full bellies, call them uneducated, uncouth and unrefined. A section of our society is born hangry – their hunger is gut-wrenching that starts from their gut and extends to the guts of their parents, siblings, spouses, kids and all whom they know. They work tirelessly not because they love what they do, but because they need to feed. I quote Ms. Miya Tokumitsu when I say that the CEOs, the glamorous and the worshipped, are successful not only because they worked hard and smart, but because they had at their disposal a population working tirelessly in factories and behind the scenes to feed their hungry that led to the starry successes. Her angst on Steve Jobs saying he was successful because he did what he loves is clearly reflected in what she states is directly demeaning to the hundreds of workers in his factories across Asia who work because they are hungry and not because they love Apple they way Jobs or final consumers do.
It is this hunger that forces each individual to work and allows the strong
willed and the really hungry, and here the term drive comes to mind, to give us
numerous, inspiring stories where individuals have defied their hunger
circumstances to reach the skies where full stomachs reign. These
stories bring tears to our eyes and hope to our hearts but are merely reduced
to textbooks and whatsapp messages to be forwarded to all. But then what? We
remain hungry. We are born hungry. We never give up on hunger. Success, money
and power become the hunger drives or the hunger games that continue to hound.
Love too! We are taught the importance of love and each X, Y, Z generation
revels in the freedom to love and choose whom to love. Romantic stories thrive
on each youthful generation that challenges parents and society. Young and old
alike believe love will let us survive, but look at ratio of divorce, suicides
or depression to know that love never survives the hardships faced by hunger of
the soul, belly, mind or money.
I reiterate, hunger, not love, is what conquers all. Don’t believe me. Then answer this simple explanation – why are we easily influenced by hunger as it resides in our bodies, dominating our actions but let love slide, screaming at your spouses, taking our families for granted or asking our friends to understand shortage of time and patience. Can you do the same to hunger? Can you sleep hungry, physical or otherwise? Imagine trying to sleep while you know that painting is unfinished, the task your boss asked you to do is lagging or your competitor offered a better deal to your customers?
Hunger Is A Better Driver Than Love
Love lets you sleep, but hunger encourages, nay ensures, your survival. The best achievements of life, the most precious moments, the success we achieve, all through our life, love is the emotion that resounds on our screen and soul and falsely given the credit but it should be hunger. For a businessman, it is the hunger of money, for a politician it is the hunger of chair, for the actor, adulation is the hunger, for the thief, the heist, for the student, an A+ grade, for the mother, food for her child and so on and so forth. For the author in me, it is the hunger of stringing words together perfectly and a piece well-written that hounds my dreams and desires.
What is the hunger that drives you or are you still of the belief that love